BE You

Ralph Emerson, a famous poet says, " Faithfulness to be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest achievement."

How many times each day you want to express your feeling but just drop off in fear of being judged? because you are worried about what " Others may think"?  Every one among us has a different personality when it comes to private and public life. Not only famous people struggle with private and public identity but everyone does. In fact, losing your identity just to fit in so-called clique has become a trend now. People who desperately striving to be part of a clique are puppets, dancing on others command. But the question is, Are you happy? The only way you are going to get through life happily is being yourself. As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.

Finding who you are and your identity can come with many challenges in life. But isn't it better than compromising your happiness just to " fit in"? It is sometimes difficult to even know "who you really are" if you have been putting up a false front for a long time. One thing can be of great help when trying to decipher yourself is knowing that It starts with being comfortable in your own skin. Find out who you are and do it on purpose. Because God does not give you face to wear a mask on it.
Those who are most successful in life have dared to be different They all once considered as mad, they were mocked for their imperfection, But still they refused to follow mob who no longer serves their vision. They dared because they knew that Being different is a gift. Do not hide your the madness, It is better to be absolutely mad or ridiculous than absolutely boring. Do you want to regret at the end of your life about not having fun or not chasing your dream or ignoring your inner voice because you were too much busy in maintaining your " Perfect Image" which no one really cares about?

 Nothing will last? In fact, your concept of "Perfect man in society " is also ephemeral. So rather falling for a mirage, recognize, appreciate and develop your unique talent . Understand that you are enriching others by being yourself. Stop bullying yourself in silence. Do not try to be like somebody else unless you want to fall miserably into low esteem pit.  It is okay to be funny or stupid if that's what you are. "Better to be a nerd than one of the herds " Being different is not a bad thing, it's just you are brave enough to be yourself. Be proud of what you are. Compromising self-respect to maintain fake identity will be the stupidest thing one can ever do.
when you do things which are not a reflection of you, You will never be happy with yourself and will end up confused. Self-respect comes from being just with YOU. Be true to who you are, live your life with your beliefs and aspirations. It takes courage to not accept rules drawn by society. Listen to your inner voice. Do not afraid of people. Those who love you will always be faithful to you. Those who will leave you for embracing your true self will cut the chords with you. But what is the benefit of having such people in life who admires a fake persona, not inner beauty? Do they really count that much? Just because they disagree, doesn't mean you ain't right, So never dull your shine for somebody else. " Be who you are and say what you feel, because of those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. "  Everybody is born different so why don't we just celebrate our uniqueness, our individuality than being embarrassed or ashamed of it? There are millions of people who respect your " Original self", But we always care about one person with a different opinion. Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.
You must have control of the authorship of your own destiny. You must not lose control of your pen that writes your life story.
Wanting to be someone else is a waste of who you are. Remember the world always worships the original.

" Let yourself be drawn by the stronger pull of that which you truly love " - Jalaluddin Rumi.